Toddlers and Tiaras

Toddlers and Tiaras 2 Screaming crowds (mostly hysterical m another(prenominal)s), make-up, hair extensions, teased hairstyles, clouds of hairspray, fictive teeth, false eyelashes, spray tans, elegant costumes, weird postures, twitched face expressions, tiaras, trophies, funds and much or less giving are the ingredients for the usual children beauty pageants. Those preadolescent girls that compete in these beauty contests are between ages 3 to 10 and some periods even younger than 2 years old and normally have one only goal, get the money and get the tiara (tiara and/or trophy and/or ribbon).Of course, these insane mothers/fathers (so called parents) enter these little beauties not at their have got request into these pageants. They fill in the applications on time, pay the fraternity fee, create or buy the outfit, establish the type of performance for the talent section, usually some song or dancing is a real popular talent to be dis cinched. The moms create and exercise the hairstyle and make-up, keep a strict rehearsal schedule, hire trainers if the mom herself pottynot coach the whole thing, buy the farm hundreds of miles with their children righteous to spend a weekend on an emotional ringlet coaster and hopefully win the competition.So why do these mothers identify their young girls through and through this experience? Well, eldest of all, For them to have fun and experience dress-up in a more complex environment. Because she likes it and because she is beautiful, etc. Off the record more, the answers include the For the money and Because she has to be number one. Anyway, for myself, the most feared answer to that question would be Because I used to participate in such contests myself, and no matter how that sentenced ends (I invariably won or Ive never won, just I acknowledge she can do it ). What can a child learn by being a professional/serial beauty pageant demonstrator?Well, encouraging the sense of competition and having a hobby to be give to is okay, spending time with mom is great, but when you become a lovely machine, and a Tiara chaser collector, serious mental problems can occur. These contests promote corporeal Beauty as the main value, with the talent section being a close second. These children, especially these little girls are going to pay so much attention to her looks and knowing she is being judged for it, will be real susceptible to develop eating disorders, such as Anorexia or Bulimia.Also, paranoiac features can occur as a response to the, No other girl here is your friend between mother and daughter and you just smile on the remote and develop a little hate inside for all other competitors. This also brings another problem to my mind, misrepresentation as a form of interaction, which can be used outside contests too and become a habit. All those screaming crowds and rivers of tears and having to put on an act and playing a role could lead to attainment hysteric behaviors. Anxiety is no stranger for these young girls either.If at first sight they seem to learn how to be prepared for stressful situation, count of this what if the girl does not really want to participate and does this only to transport her mother? What if she cant actually dance or sing, but she has to do that anyway? And what if she feels embarrassed? What if she would rather like to spend time with friends in her home town and not in some gimcrack hotel miles away from her house? Then I believe yes, anxiety and defeat are near these children at all times.These and many other psychological problems can emerge from having to be something that you are not at a very early age. And inner problems are not the only ones. Displaying such a mature look (these girls are five or half-dozen years old, yet their faces look like those of at least 16 years old) may attract unwanted public, such as pedophiles. nonrecreational the fee for your childs picture to be posted on a website with heavy traffic is again, in my opinion, not the best cream to be made. Toddlers and Tiaras 3Unfortunately, there have been cases of young pageant participants that have been victims in murder cases, so things are not as simple as one might think. In most cases, mothers are trying to die out their dreams through their children that they couldnt accomplish themselves when they were younger. Playing dress-up with your daughter can be great, but why transform it into a full-time air? I must also mention that these competitions occur on weekends, so these children have no downtime or time to themselves to unwind and just play with their friends and do what children do best, PLAY. So many things can be discussed slightly children beauty pageants, ranging from ethics, parenthood, mental health, development, competition or interpersonal relationships, but in the beginning I end, give your children time to make their own choices and fulfill their own dreams. Toddlers and Tiaras 4 References http//psychol ogycorner. com/toddlers-and-children-beauty-pageants-%E2%80%93-risk-factors-for-severe-psychological-turmoils/